First date in my life, but HUGE problem.

[Derek]

But i will say this: Its nice to have friends who will fix me up. Not too many of my friends want to do that. I think it has alot to do with my living situation.

[2 of 3]

Nickelback.. this is funny

The sad thing though Kyle...that's not a joke. Listening to any interview with Chad Kroger is like listening to a Skin Head being interviewed. That guy is a giant douche bag. He makes Ted Nugent sound like Gandhi.


Anyway...sorry to interrupt your thread Derek. 

[lampie1970]

ok you guys......

i feel THE SAME WAY. I too have these rules: english as a first language, not from any country where women are second class, not a moma's boy ( i have at one time said mother to be dead, but i guess that's a little gruesome). I can't meet anyone that wants ME for ME. I am not the supermodel, sexy, rail thin thing they can brag to their friends about.

All i am trying to say is that there are girls out here that feel the same way. are overlooked because they don't fit some physical ideal that some guys have laid out for themselves. I am a good person, with a good heart, and I really put 100% into every relationship I am in, and yet the last three have ended because he decided one day that i was not what he wanted. it feels BAD to be told that they had no idea it would be this hard. and I thought i made it easy!

Just do me a favor: Don't give up!

Derek, do your spanish lessons, no matter what they are! You will meet a girl and have some spanish under your belt and it will all be ok. When two people want to communicate, nothing stands in the way!!

and Kyle, you are an awesome person!! I could kick these girls for how stupid they are! If I was a kiwi.... ;)

[Kylenz]

and Kyle, you are an awesome person!! I could kick these girls for how stupid they are! If I was a kiwi.... ;)

At the end of the day, I can only blame myself. We are all responsible for the choices we make, no matter how simple/mundane or complex/emotional each decision is. We choose to live the way we want to live.

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Somewhat true Kyle. We are who we are. The trick is liking the person you are. That's the only way you can expect someone else to like that person too.

[Derek]

Lupitta is back in Cozumel! But by herself with no money. I'd give anything to help her out, but they i see it, i have no money either, my mommy does. You dig?
Typical story of the local Mexicans. I feel so bad about this, i, for one feel like i don't belong. The Ex=pats here are moderatly rich while the native local Mexicans struggle to get by...in thier country. My mom used tp have 2 young girls cleaning for us, but she had to let them go because theu werent cleaning good enogh for her. She hired someone else. One of those girls came back and literaly begged for work or to do something for money. I wanted to give her something, but i didnt have anything on me at the time.
And now Lupita's in the same boat, i want to support her, but my mom is sorta "supporting" me. To shorten this story, i'm what you would call a "Trust Fund Baby" (just look it up, too long to go into, now.) But the way i see it, IF my relationship with Lupita ever gets to the point of marriage, that would be enough money, right? She could have a little job and go to collage and whatever she couldnt pay for, go into my trust fund money., simple enough. I just don't think my mom would really agree on the arrangment, though.
In the meantime, i would like to continue the relationship with Lupita, but i'm just afraid Steve (my translater/friend will talk to me about my mom not loaning me enough money. That's something i can NOT help.