Venus And Mars...No, not the album ;)

[chris]

it isn't that we/i won't talk about something. but it is surely a sign that i am uncomfortable about talking about it. there are ways of getting info out of anyone. no, i'm not talking about the sexy talk either. just come at a different angle. try a new approach. and if that doesn't work...try asking...what are you so afraid of? guys don't like to be thought of as scared.

you know, there is only so much you can tell about someone by only reading their words in print. but i think you and i are alot alike. don't know why i say it. just a feeling.

but as long as things are good and friendly (between you and yours), keep trying to get to know him. you'd be amazed at how challenging a guy, putting him on the spot, just might work to your advantage.

i'd never want to change anyone.either. have to accept them as is or not. but it's up to you whether or not it's worth it. don't give up. not if you think they're worth it. sometimes, with a little effort, you may get someone to open up. but i wouldn't give up so easily if i was looking to hear something...and i wasn't. i'd just try a different approach.